Hi Mike (and Diane),
Welcome to the forum.I'm sorry to hear how much pain your wife has been in (and for so long.) It sounds like you've both been through a lot. There are many wonderfully kind and knowledgeable folks on this site that I'm sure will chime in with their thoughts. I cannot speak to your wife's specific issues as my problems are different, BUT I can relate to her fear of surgery. I also spent years in pain and had finally gotten to the point where my life consisted of work (which was REALLY tough to manage) and bed. It sounds like you're trying all of your conservative options which is good as surgery really should be a last choice. However, knowing 'when to say when' you've had enough is realllllly hard and a different journey for every spine patient. Have a look around the site and you'll find lots of great information and wonderful success stories. Lots of inspiration! I am almost 3 months post surgery and although I have a ways to go, I am already WAY better than I was before surgery (and very happy I took the plunge).
Here's to a better tomorrow,
Kimberly



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I'm sorry to hear how much pain your wife has been in (and for so long.) It sounds like you've both been through a lot. There are many wonderfully kind and knowledgeable folks on this site that I'm sure will chime in with their thoughts. I cannot speak to your wife's specific issues as my problems are different, BUT I can relate to her fear of surgery. I also spent years in pain and had finally gotten to the point where my life consisted of work (which was REALLY tough to manage) and bed. It sounds like you're trying all of your conservative options which is good as surgery really should be a last choice. However, knowing 'when to say when' you've had enough is realllllly hard and a different journey for every spine patient. Have a look around the site and you'll find lots of great information and wonderful success stories. Lots of inspiration! I am almost 3 months post surgery and although I have a ways to go, I am already WAY better than I was before surgery (and very happy I took the plunge).




While she didn't actually sit on my back, I did a lot of 'trotting' on all fours pretending to chase her. Then we went on an hour long walk. Two years ago I was bedridden like your wife.
. Therapy and chiropractic treatments helping immensely. Gone from being almost bedridden to near normal activities including gardening. Life is gooooood!


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