Feb 24th Front/Back Fusion w/ Laminectomy

**Mastermind75** · 01-14-2010, 08:23 AM

My surgery will be at Penn Hospital in Philadelphia. Now that it's so true it's really hitting me. Like alot of people I just thought I could go with the pain. But I dont want to anymore. Makes me just want to break down and yell at everything.

I have a friend that just had her yr anniversary and she's on here. Has been a great help in answering my questions and just being there for me. Thanks Karin.

My names Ryan.........I'm getting my son ready for school so I am rushing this morning. Ill add more later.

**Nairek** · 01-14-2010, 08:25 PM

Ryan

to SPS! The people here are just like you & me. Fellow spiney's who know what it's like to be in another's shoes. You will find that people here are non-judgmental, helpful, & there for you when you need a friend.

Take a look through the site. You will find a wealth of information here.

Don't be afraid to ask questions. This is a very supportive community

& there are many here who are willing to help.

And though I don't really know you, I'm glad that all of my pep talks have helped you. Now I have to go & write a paper about epidemics/pandemics

Karin

**Mastermind75** · 01-15-2010, 12:31 AM

There she is......lil Spiney...lol

**Mollyhopp** · 01-15-2010, 07:04 AM

Welcome Ryan!

I'm new here too. Going under the knife on the 21st; it seems we're at pretty similar stages. I was given the option of surgery in November, but really thought I'd make it with conservative therapy. After nightmarish holidays I surrendered, and now that I'm set for surgery I'm actually excited and very much looking forward to it.

Here's to us both being pain free very soon!

/Linn

**Justin** · 01-15-2010, 07:29 AM

Hi Ryan,

Welcome to the Spine Patient Society!

I see that you are in Philadelphia too. Who is your surgeon at Pennsylvania Hospital? I do hope your surgery is a complete success and that you can get back to living your life without pain.

Please keep us posted on your progress and let me know if you need anything. We are here to support you.

PS See this thread to create a signature when you have time: Spine History -- How to Update / Create a Personal Signature

**Mastermind75** · 01-15-2010, 10:53 AM

Dr. Scott Rushton with 3B Orthopaedics, he will be performing my surgery. A Dr. Kirkland will be performing the anterial cut, he is a gastro surgeon.

My father is trying to push a second opinion but to me its not a concern. I dont know.

**Mastermind75** · 01-15-2010, 10:56 AM

Linn, best of luck on your surgery date. We all deserve our happiness and to feel pain free. I'm sure every one of us will be here for you for support.

**ajj1001** · 01-15-2010, 11:26 AM

Originally Posted by Mastermind75

My father is trying to push a second opinion but to me its not a concern. I dont know.

Is a second opinion an option? If you aren't sure then it is a good idea. Especially if it can be done quickly and then proceed with surgery as booked. Only my opinion though.

**Mastermind75** · 01-16-2010, 12:45 AM

A second opinion is always an option. To me it's not needed. My father is saying if he was I he would. My father is'nt me and doesnt know how I feel everyday of every minute with my leg throbbing or my ass cheek or even the back pain itself.

I'm a single father with full custody of my son and it's come to the point that I barely pick up my 7 yr old son and or rough house play with him because I know it will hurt. My son is my life and I cant let this back problem take over my life. I need to get back to what things were.

**ajj1001** · 01-16-2010, 05:05 AM

If you are happy with your planned surgery then that is good. It can be a good idea to get opinions from a couple of surgeons as they interpret tests, symptoms and offer different treatment plans. Hope that you can soon get back to doing everything you want to with your son.