Welcome to the forum and sorry for the circumstances that bring you here. I completely get being over the pain and just wanting your life back. When I was asked if I would consider surgery, I told them I would stand on my head all day if it might help the pain.... desperate was an understatement. I then found forums researching surgery. Everyone suggested multiple opinions, and even though I was ready for surgery yesterday, I sought them and am glad I did. Luckily, all of my opinions were the same on the treatment, which was ADR at L4/5. However, this is not the case for many and the second or third opinion points out something that could have potentially been missed.
As far as when to have surgery, no one can really answer that but you. I went through 3 years of treatment (everything under the sun) before surgery. Some people have surgery after only 6 months of treatment. For me it was a delay in diagnosis (similar to what you had, no one would tell me what was causing my pain) and it was the exhausting of all conservative options. While 3 years of treatment was not fun, nor would I suggest waiting that long, it did give me peace knowing I had done any and every thing possible to get better and that surgery was my only option. Spine surgery is a MAJOR surgery and no piece of cake to heal from. Some do better than others, some heal quicker, others longer and others never and there is no telling what group you are going to fall in. That's what is great about exhausting conservative options, getting multiple opinions and becoming educated on your condition. You can go into it knowing that you have done every thing you could and made the best decision with the information you had. I wanted to be at peace with my surgery outcome regardless if it was a positive or negative one.
I was a stay at home mom during my treatment and still am, so never had to 'go back to work' per say. I was also one of the slower healers, it took me all of a year to really feel considerably better and just recently at my 18 month mark was I able to become completely pain free. I was very naive and thought that since I was young that I would be back in top shape after a few months and that wasn't the case for me. It was a very up and down recovery and there were plenty of times where I wondered if I had made a bad decision. That said, I'm completely satisfied with surgery and would do it again. It was worth it for sure. I just wish I had researched even more than I did and realized just how big of a surgery I was having.
Best of Luck,
Kathy



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, completely pain free still!





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